Got My G2

On Tuesday, October 27, I finally got my G2 driver's license.

For those that don't know the Ontario licensing system, earning the G1 is based on a written test and succeeding allows you to drive, but only with someone experienced in the front passenger's seat. The G2 is earned through a drivetest and allows you to operate a vehicle unsupervised. This is where I've been stuck. There is also a full G license but we don't need to get into that right now.

If you've been reading this blog for awhile, you'll know that this has been a project long in the making. 

I got my G1 at the age of 19 after breaking up with my first girlfriend. At that time, I was despairing and feeling that I needed some form of forward motion or I would lose motivation entirely. I passed the test but despite the license being good for six years, I would need to renew it three times.

This is because I didn't have anyone close enough to me to practice. My mother stopped driving in my early teens and my extended family all lived in different cities. After finishing Canada World Youth and before beginning college, I did stay with my grandparents in Kenabeek for a few months, expressly so that my grandfather could teach me how to drive.

This almost worked. I was able to practice every day and even went as far as taking the drivetest. I failed, with the instructor saying that I didn't make any disqualifying errors, but that I'd made an accumulation of minor ones.

I got into a situation where I either didn't have enough time or didn't have enough money for driving lessons. After graduating college, I spent three years making my income through a combination of temporary and gig work. Then I got a job at a group home, but I was also doing four Direct Support contracts, teaching Safe Management, and going to university. I attempted driving lessons in this era, but scheduling was too much of a mess.

A year ago (I think, might have been two), I tried my second driving school and took ten lessons. But because my license was going to expire between the time of scheduling and the time of testing, I needed to apply for an extension. Which I did successfully, but on the day I accidentally brought the receipt instead of the document itself and they wouldn't let me try. I renewed my G1 the same day.

This year I went for a third driving school. I chose it by sending emails to a bunch of different places describing my apprehensions just to see which would respond the best. I said that I didn't have access to my own vehicle and would need to use one from the school, that I was tall and didn't fit well into most cars, that I was anxious, that I had ADHD, and that I was old and insecure about starting something that so many people learn in their youth. Obviously no school can help with all that, but I just wanted to test their chill.

Most of the responses I got sounded either automated, generic, or overly optimistic. The place I went with, Treadz, gave a pretty thorough and realistic response. I remember them mentioning the types of cars that are used as training vehicles, explaining why the height thing would likely be a pervasive issue for me.

So I booked ten lessons with them and a test date. The opportunity to follow through on it would be snatched away from me again though, as Lee-Anne's surgery wound up getting booked at the same time. All things considered, her situation needed to take priority. However, after rescheduling my test, the surgeon cancelled on her a second time because they broke their machine again.

Around this time I did a tarot reading on the topic, and the gist was that I would only get my license if I wanted it for myself, and that I would never succeed if my intentions were to be in service to another.

The weather was getting worse, and it felt like things were set up to potentially go wrong again in the exact same way. But this time it didn't. 

I felt really self-conscious of using the school's vehicle, as it made me a representative in a way. All these companies have statistics with the success rates of their students and I didn't want to be an exception, especially because I was pretty sure that my instructor was one of the two founders. Most of the Treadz vehicles just had a "hat" to show their status as a training vehicle, but mine had large decals.

I had no idea if I would be capable of passing. I was really 50/50 about it. During the test, I was very conscientious that you would get docked points for going over the speed limit, but not for going under unless it was by an egregious amount. So I went comfortably under even though I know that's annoying for the people around me. I was aware that most of the points connected to parking came from checking blind spots and being cautious, not from the exactness of the final position. So I put all my focus in that and the result was maybe the worst parallel park I've ever done, although I think it was still kind of okay.

The test was booked for an hour. I've no idea how long it actually took but it didn't feel that long. My examiner told me that I met ministry standards but that I should work on my parking and I need to relax.

I'll take it.

Art Walks 2026

There are a couple art walks that Lee-Anne and I typically do every year. I've posted about them before. They are events where local artists display their work in or outside their homes. There is one in our neighbourhood, the Central Art Walk, and one in the Frederick area. This weekend we attended the latter, but we also partook in the former a few weeks ago.

 The one closer to us is the Central Art Walk and this year it only had six participating locations, a stark decline from when we started going to it. However, three places were hubs hosting multiple artists. My workplace, WALES, hosted three displays, there was the KW Art Co Op, and the person running the whole thing had eight people in and outside his house.

 

I actually helped host this year. WALES requires one of our employees to be present while the Art Walk is happening, and I took the closing shift on Sunday. Two of the artists had a shared display and they told me that they have been participating annually for... I want to say something like 15 years. One of them showed me the first brochure. Each participating location was represented by a letter in the order of the alphabet and it extended all the way to Q. By comparison, this year would only have gone to F.

 

But they were fairly unconcerned. They said that the person who usually runs it retired this year, so the guy hosting eight displays out of his house adopted responsibility. The transition left him with less time than usual and everything got underway last minute, resulting in an underwhelming turnout.

 

We still got some stuff. Here they are:

 

These were from a house that was new to the art walk. Most of their work waa paintings on canvas. The median price range was something like $700. It's tough because considering the skill, time, and resources that went into them, they were priced appropriately. Technically I could afford it, but it's just not something to buy on an impulse.

 

However, they also had these mushroom figures which were much cheaper. We chose a couple with gold caps, one with a kissy face and the other winking. Overall, a pair of flirty mushrooms. They're sitting by our succulents at the moment.

 

 

 

This was made by one of our WALES members and a participating artist stationed in our building. I bought two pieces from him last year. We don't have enough wall space to justify his work, but I got this one as a gift for my brother. His favourite flower is peonies, and these are at least pink like them.

I bought a painting from another artist displayed in the same room. I got something from her last year as well. I have it displayed at work though and didn't take a picture of it so can't show it here right now. The piece was titled "Where are you Linda?"

 

These were done by the photographers in the WALES building. If you're counting, and want to call me out for getting numbers wrong, I said we had three displays! Those were shared over four artists.

They were a married couple. Adrien did mostly animal photos while Jonathon did sky. The techniques for capturing their respective targets was pretty different. More earthly subjects need improvisation and quick decision making under unpredictable circumstances while celestial images require long-term planning and research.

We bought a magnet for Lee-Anne's sister-in-law, as she loves raccoons and her household hosted us for Thanksgiving this year. Jonathan donated two packs of cards to the WALES employees that oversaw the art walk. I got to choose the collections. I picked the solar eclipse because it happened while we were at work so it was a shared experience for most of us, and I just thought the aurora borealis looked neat. 

I bought this book from the guy who organised the art walk this year. He's the one who hosted eight artists out of his house. I guess his name is D.H. McKee. He's a legitimate published author, he's got a page on Goodreads.

The following images are from the Frederick Art Walk, which happened this weekend and was much, much larger. 

We got some Christmas ornaments.

I got this adorable little ankylosaur sculpture. His name is Sweet Potato. He has heart markings on his spikes and under his chin. The artist I bought him from was very excited with my pick. Maybe my favourite purchase this year.

And here are a couple of magnets. We got the axolotl from someone that we got a fox and dinosaur from last year, although we broke the latter.

The chickadee actually came from the Bestival, which is a separate event from the art walks. In the past, we've gotten a rainbow mushroom in the same style.

We also bought tea, a candle, and some homemade soap.

Gryphood One-Offs

I've mentioned before that I keep a physical version of my Gryphood blog. It's a collection of recipes taken from my cooking blog divided into two binders, one titled "Main Course" and the other "Snacks and Sides". I also keep a copy of the WALES cookbook. Recently, I decided to make another: "One-Offs". 

Usually, if I don't enjoy something that I've made, I won't bother recording it. However, every once and a while there is an exception for this rule. In fact, right now, out of the 127 entries to Gryphood, there are twelve dishes that for some reason, I felt compelled to post, but which I don't realistically think I'll revisit. These are the recipes that I've dedicated my "One Offs" binder to.

I've listed them below, to try and justify why I've given them such a placement.

Cabbage Rolls

I like cabbage. I'm okay with rice, tomato sauce, and  ground beef. It's a simple recipe, made of things I like, but I doubt I'll make them again. I found the leaves got smaller the further I got into the cabbage, leaving the rolls at inconsistent sizes.

I tried making a casserole version of it. Maybe I'll try that again, but I used the food processor and I think I shredded the cabbage too finely. My brother liked it, but to me the whole thing combined to feel like a hot salad rather than a casserole.

Cauliflower Crust Mini Pizzas

I got this recipe from the Diabetic Code cookbook. The crust was actually meant to be for poached egg, but we made pizza. I had a few failed attempts. First I used a dishcloth instead of a cheesecloth when attempting to squeeze the water out of the cauliflower. Then I neglected to use parchment paper. I also thought I could consolidate the suggested four disks into one large crust. I couldn't.

Eventually I got my act together and did everything as instructed. End result was that I could properly cut and lift slices like a normal, wheat-based crust. Lee-Anne said "I hate how much I love pizza" which indicated that I got the desired effect.

In the end though, it's just too labour intensive to make again. I'm glad I finally managed it, and was proud enough to make a blog post. 

Curried Chicken Salad With Arugula

As of this posting, this is the most recent entry on Gryphood. It's the last recipe in The Diabetic Code that we had selected as wanting to make. So by completing this one, we're sort of soft-retiring the book, and this dish represents that accomplishment.

Lee-Anne made it, and while I liked it fine, she says that it was "missing something" and that she wouldn't make it again. 

Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe

At the end of the book Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe, there is a list of recipes from the iconic diner. They are intentionally written in the style of someone who already knows how to cook, and is just using them as a personal reference. So it was fun to see if I could translate this into something useable.

When the season was right I attempted this most signature side for which the book was named. I had to make a batch of bacon because I don't keep enough grease on hand to satisfy the recipe. Makes sense for a diner to have a surplus though. In the end, I found that breading the green tomato slices like I would a cut of schnitzel had a more desireable outcome than the suggestions from the book. 

I did sort of learn through this process how to make these breaded zucchini slices which were a thing from my childhood. Just treat them like schnitzel.

Fried Okra From the Whistle Stop Cafe

This is almost the same recipe as the one above, but using okra instead of green tomatoes. I'd never had okra before, and perhaps if I'd grown up with them my feelings would be different. But as things stand, I found them less appetising than the green tomatoes.

Loaded Baked Potato Soup

Loaded baked potato is one of my top three favourite soups, alongside broccoli cheddar and mulligatawny. I wanted to learn this one as a recreation of the version from my college cafeteria. However, both times I've tried, I failed. And I'm not quite sure what I'm doing wrong, so there's not much for me to build off. I'll just let other people make it.

Macaroni Corn Casserole

I got this from a video for ADHD friendly recipes. Weirdly, it's the Gryphood post that has the most views, with 209. I've wondered if this was someone's favourite recipe, and I've asked the people that I know visit my blog, but no one has claimed to be the one that keeps visiting this page. My brother says that when you see a phenomenon like this, it's probably because someone that comes for the blog in general has bookmarked that specific page.

Apparently it's pretty common for someone with ADHD to have a go-to recipe that isn't very strenuous on the mind, often which they can make a large batch of so that they can have plenty of leftovers and avoid needing to think about cooking more than they have to. For me, it's fried rice. For someone else, it's this casserole.

I thought it was just mediocre. The video I got it from also gave me my chicken tortilla soup recipe though, which is my mom's favourite of the things I make. 

Oven Baked Sweet Potato Fries

It's a lot harder to make crispy sweet potato fries than one would think. If you just make strips, they'll turn soggy under the heat. Like the cauliflower crusts, this took a few attempts and I was eventually happy with the outcome, but it was just a little too finicky to repeat.

Provencal Ratatouille

I made this with my brother. I got the recipe from The Mediterranean cookbook, which has been a very reliable resource. It was satisfying to make and seemed to come together well, but it's very eggplant forward and I don't really like eggplant. Not the recipe's fault, just a personal thing.

Tonkatsu Sauce

This was part of my Okonomiyaki recipe. I decided to splice it off and make it its own unique post, because I have a "Dips and Sauces" section in my Snacks and Sides binder. I'm glad I did that too, because while I've revisited my okonomiyaki recipe many times since, I haven't bothered with the tonkatsu sauce. Tasted too much like ketchup, which I dislike. Also, I'm not sure it's authentic, because when I've described my grievance, I've been told that tonkatsu sauce shouldn't taste like ketchup at all.

Tzatziki From Mediterranean Table

This was my second tzatziki recipe, which I only included because I liked the source better than my first, which I just ripped online. However, the two are extremely similar in their ingredients, most of the difference being in quantity. The Mediterranean Table's version makes a huge amount which is not difficult to scale down with a little mental math, but because I already had a version that doesn't require any editing, it was hard to justify the existence of both recipes in my binder.

Zucchini Fritters

When I had my little health scare a few years back, I felt like zuchini fritters might be a healthier alternative to potato pancakes. However, I had the same issue as I did with the cauliflower crust. Really hard to get enough moisture out. I've learned that any recipe that includes a cheesecloth is going to be labour intensive. I had a few failed attempts before finally getting it right and learning that I just don't like zuchini fritters that much.

Big Storm

A couple weeks ago we had a big storm. I remember being at work and people talking about the weather forecast, worrying that it would hit right around when members were supposed to be getting their rides. Thankfully, it held out just long enough for everyone to get safely home.

It did come though. I got a series of alerts on my phone, the type that sounds out even if you have your volume turned off. One of them said we might see golf ball sized hail. One said that there was a tornado in my cell coverage area. Not a "warning", or "watch" (I can never remember which is worse), but an actual tornado. I've never had an alert like that, although I have no idea of what constitutes my "cell coverage area", so who knows how much danger I was actually in.

Regardless, we live in a basement apartment so I was already in an ideal environment. Lee-Anne was in Kitchener City Hall for a Compass Kitchener meeting. I wasn't too concerned. That seems like the safest possible place to be for a situation like that.

Indeed, they were evacuated to the underground parking garage. She said the worst part was the loud alarms screaming out of everyone's phones repeatedly. I've experienced that once myself, when we were at a WalMart during a similar but lesser event.

My brother was out of town, but I sent a text to my mom to stay inside. After it was all over, she replied that she'd been out in the storm. She had walked to her pharmacy and got caught in it on the way back. Remember, she's still recovering from breaking her leg last year. She said the wind was almost bad enough to knock her over, but she managed to make her way inside relatively unscathed.

After things settled, an image of a tornado touching down circulated around local Internet communities. It was debunked as AI generated. There were a few locations that got pretty intense, where "the air was coming from every direction" and people claim a tornado formed. I know someone who was driving near one of those areas when the storm came in, and she can't confirm but said it felt possible.

We didn't get the golf ball sized hail, but apparently they did in Toronto. 

It was the talk of the town for days after, everybody discussing where they'd been and how bad it got in their area. More than a few trees came down, and limbs were torn from many that survived. There's maintenance work still ongoing from the resulting damage of that day.

Our place was pretty much untouched. The linden tree lost a branch but all our delicate flowers somehow made it. In fact:

 

Since then, three sunflowers have blossomed! This will likely be as many as we're going to get. I always say that even one sunflower is a victory, so even if we had to try a little harder this year, and yielded less, I'm still going to count this as a success.

RIP Ivan

I met Ivan back when I worked as a Summer Program Facilitator. At that time, there was a role called Peer Leader. It was an opportunity for people diagnosed with developmental disabilities to work for wages, helping to run the program. Each facilitator was paired with a Peer Leader, and my partner was Ivan.

Since then, he happened to move into the area where Lee-Anne and I live. I would see him occasionally in the neighbourhood and often at local events.

Recently, Lee-Anne saw a Facebook notice from a mutual friend asking about what happened to him. I did a little digging and apparently he has passed due to cancer. It must have been especially aggressive since it looks like he was diagnosed only about a month beforehand. He was a year younger than me.

https://erbgood.com/tribute/details/18298/Ivan-Vincent/obituary.html 

It reminds me of when I was in college and a fellow student, Bri, got diagnosed with a rare condition and passed at the age of 19. Someone that didn't know her well asked me about it and I said "She didn't seem like the type of person that would die". The person replied, "Everyone keeps saying that. What does that mean?"

I'm not quite sure. Maybe it's just when it happens to someone young with no obvious additional health consideration. I mentioned that Ivan had another diagnosis, but as far as I'm aware, completely unrelated to cancer. Maybe when someone's life has already been impacted by one rare struggle, it just feels unfair when another, unrelated and unlikely misfortune comes along. 

He was a musician. I remember that he'd written a song called "The Old House Mystery" and made a music video on YouTube.  Later, I found his channel. I think he took that specific video down but he had kept making music, so I subscribed. As a courtesy he did the same for me, which I thought was funny because I've never uploaded anything there. Sometimes when people would talk about channel numbers, I would brag about my one subscriber.

Lee-Anne met him at an event hosted by Grand River Hospital. It featured live music by The Strumbellas followed by a drone show. I actually did a blog post on it. Ivan had come for the music and left before the drones came out. This past weekend was the Bestival, which is an event where I'd run into him in the past. Two stages blocking off Belmont ave with live music alternating between them. The type of place you'd expect to see Ivan.

Garden Update August 2026

I mentioned in my post "Living Under the Eye of Mordor" that we had two types of sunflowers, and the smog storm killed one but not the other. Since then, the remaining half has endured some kind of repeated insect infestation leaving only four survivors. Three of them seem large enough to be resilient to the elements, and the other one is really trying but we'll have to wait and see. Even just one blossom is a success and we're not that far from the end of the season.

The snow peas were the other casualty of the smoke. They had produced at that point but should have lasted longer. 

Tomatoes and bell peppers have been the most reliable, and we've done well with chives, parsley, and lettuce. We've been able to have some salads using only garden ingredients.

Our zucchinis have lived and stayed healthy, flowering continually but something keeps munching on them before they can do much. We've grown them before and had success, but this has just been a bad year.

As far as decorative plants go, the coleus have predictably dominated. The morning glories have just recently blossomed as well. I had two pots with two variants, one blue and one red, but both have produced red flowers! Don't know what happened there.

One thing that was kind of interesting about the morning glories was, they seemed to know where they were going as soon as they sprouted. Other climbing plants that I'm more familiar with, such as snow peas, cucumbers, and zucchini, kind of grope around blindly until they find something they can grasp. You can train them by moving their vines to more strategic vantage points, and they take the suggestion. But the morning glories all seemed to lean in the direction of our fence until they reached that intended destination, as if moving by sight as well as touch. 

We have a large tree in the middle of our backyard, a linden I think. It casts a good deal of shade which might be limiting our garden. At one of the monthly community bakes, one of our neighbours suggested we try growing crops that do well with indirect light. She suggested broccoli, cauliflower, and Brussels sprouts. I really enjoy each of those, especially sprouts so it would be nice if it were true.

We also have a tree in our front yard that has caused some issues. It's a Manitoba Maple, which I've heard from a few people is considered a weed. Looking it up, they are considered pioneer species. Resilient in isolation, capable of growing fast, short in lifespan. Although I haven't heard people speak so unfavourably of other species that share those traits, such as birches, willows, and poplar.

But even the local plant expert, who has a pollinator garden and believes, generally, in leaving nature to its own devices said that this tree would be firewood if it were on his lawn.

It had grown so ferociously that it was encroaching on the neighbours' property, branches drooping into their driveway and threatening to knock against their car's windshield.

So I trimmed its lower branches, which I felt bad about. On observing me, I heard a mother reassure her child that "He's just trimming it, he likes the tree". I really hated seeing violence against plants when I was that age.

I told the Manitoba Maple, "Look, I'm only cutting your lowest branches. They're the least useful to you anyway. I know I'm not doing you any favours, but this will stop the neighbours from getting mad at you and is your best shot at continued survival".

Really, it had grown to an extent that I could do no meaningful damage with a pair of clippers. Young branches sprung out with a youthful green that bordered blue. In the end I had a hefty pile of branches that Lee-Anne is using as feed for our new composter. 

Last year, our neighbour gave us some hostas. In my initial garden post, I said that I thought I could identify one of them. Since then I've confirmed six, one more than we planted. They're supposed to do well with indirect light, which was the thought behind the gift, but they've been pretty diminutive.

They have responded well to the new patch of light opened by the break in the Manitoba Maple's lower branches. Since trimming, the hostas have all been perkier. One that had been chewed down to nubs has produced new leaves and the largest of them has flowered! They're still not much when compared to a lot of the others seen around the neighbourhood, but its an improvement and maybe they'll do better next year. 

Gardening aside, the wild turkey near my work has been sighted two more times! Lee-Anne and I went into the cemetery expressly to see if we could find it and we did. It's likely the same one

 

Family Up North

My mother and brother are visiting my grandparents up North. For the past couple of years, Lee-Anne and I have made the trip out there and it was beginning to feel like a new tradition. However, due to Lee-Anne's surgery getting postponed, the fact that she's recently become a Direct Support Worker, and because I'm trying to get my driver's license, it's been difficult to schedule. My grandma did remind us that they are available year-round, so maybe we'll make a winter trip.

My brother hasn't been up there for many, many years. It hasn't been so long for Mom, but it's still a big undertaking for her because of her leg injury. This is likely her most ambitious undertaking since she broke it.

At least this arrangement leaves us available to take care of their cats. Right now we have them over in our apartment. My mom said she'd prefer this to us visiting to take care of them. She worried that they would be lonely. 

Normally I would have argued with her on this point. They have each other for company and the stress of relocation to me seems about as bad as losing access to their humans for a week. Crucially, reintegrating them with our cats might be difficult.

But we'd learned from the second fire that they remembered each other. So I was content to give Mom the benefit of the doubt in understanding her pets' stressors and they are here with us now. This way does cut down on travel time between our place and theirs.

Indeed, the four cats remember each other as well as they did on their last reunion. We don't have as much access to sunlight, but we are closer to grass, crickets, squirrels etc. The kitchen window has been a treat for our feline guests.

 

Their cats are more aerodynamic and are better at getting to places. This isn't a big deal, except I'm propagating a bunch of succulents and one of the windows that isn't usually accessible can now be reached. I had to rearranged the office so there were no viable launching points, and I moved the bedroom plants to the living room. Kieran has been whining at me to let him into the now-occupied window. I don't know why he likes it there, the view is pretty obscured.

As a random aside, a wild turkey walked by my work recently 

It sauntered up past our building alongside the cemetery to the main office. I and another facilitator went out to look at it. We messaged the team and a few members came out. Someone from the other building alerted a few people to it as well. The turkey seemed unconcerned with our presence.

Apparently this isn't the first sighting. My manager told me that a highschool student who had a placement with us the year before the pandemic saw one but didn't mention it in the moment.

It's been a good year for birds. I've captured several pictures of hawks, some good ones of bluejays and cardinals, and even a woodpecker. Now this turkey.